INTERVIEW WITH OSCAR THICKK
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TO CELEBRATE THE LAUNCH OF FTSHSTUDIOS.COM WE INTERVIEW ADULT FETISH PERFORMER OSCAR THICKK AND GET THE LOW-DOWN ON HIS FASCINATING INSIGHTS INTO THE WORLD OF BDSM, FETISH AND SEX
1 - How did you discover your kinks?
2 - Are you Domme, Sub or Switch?
It’s funny to reflect on where my love for shoes and patent really comes from. I’ve realized a lot of it stems from films I watched growing up—Catwoman in Batman Returns, for instance, definitely rewired something in my brain! I’ve always admired the femininity of heels, but there’s something about boots—their power and presence—that truly resonates with me. Wearing them feels empowering, and I especially enjoy the attention they draw when I’m out and about. It’s been an exciting journey of self-discovery, combining aesthetics with power in ways that just feel right.
I’m naturally a Dom—it comes easily to me, and I love taking the lead. Being in control is something I thrive on, and it turns me on to no end. That said, there are moments when I enjoy a woman telling me exactly how she wants to be pleasured. Knowing she’s completely turned on and immersed in the experience does something for me too. But when it comes to men, there’s no question—I’ll be domming you straight into next week.
3 - Have you ever deliberately used the power of fetish in a vanilla situation?
4 - How often do you surprise yourself with what you’re prepared to do in the name of your fetishes?
The power of fetish in everyday life is exquisite. It draws attention and often sparks wonderful compliments. It’s also a fantastic conversation starter—my boots, for example, are unique and stand out in a sea of trainers. It’s not every day you see someone rocking long leather boots, and people, both men and women, often come up to ask about them. Before you know it, we’re deep in conversation—it’s amazing how something so simple can create such engaging connections.
I surprise myself often! There are moments when I’m tying someone up, flogging them, or crafting an experience, and I find myself thinking, Wow. It’s especially humbling when I see their reactions—the sheer enjoyment and gratitude they express always surprise me in the best way. I’ll never forget being told, "I understand why they pay you the big bucks." That moment was a turning point, making me realize that what I do isn’t just a job—it’s an art form I’ve crafted with passion and precision through fetish and sex.
5 - What’s been your most memorable experience exploring a fetish?
6 - How do you approach connecting with someone new during a session?
One of my most memorable experiences wasn’t tied to a single moment but to the journey of gaining confidence and feeling sexy through fetish. Over time, I realized how much power there is in embracing who you are and what you love. Every time I slip on a pair of boots or step into a dominant role, it reinforces that sense of control and allure. Seeing how others respond—how much they admire and enjoy what I bring to the table—has been a huge part of building that confidence. It’s a continual process, but one that’s deeply rewarding.
It’s similar for me—I make sure we have a good conversation beforehand to establish trust and understanding. I like to make them laugh, break the ice, and go over the details of the session so they know exactly what to expect. We’ll talk about safe words, boundaries, and limitations, so they feel secure going in. Even if the session is intense and full-on, I ensure they know they’re ultimately safe and in control. I’ll also emphasize how incredible they’re going to feel—not just during the session but afterward as well. It’s all about creating an experience that’s empowering and unforgettable.
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7 - What advice would you give someone curious about exploring their fetishes for the first time?
8 - What advice would you give to someone nervous about booking their first session?
The first step is accepting that your fetish is a natural part of you. Sex and fetish are never static—they evolve and shift as we grow and change as people. Whether you’ve loved the same thing for years or are just starting to explore new desires, it’s all okay. The key is to let go of any shame or guilt tied to your fantasies and understand that you’re not alone in them. Talk to people, like me, who can help guide you through this journey and give you the confidence to explore this incredible side of yourself.
Ever feel nervous before getting on a rollercoaster? Of course you do! But once the ride starts, the adrenaline and exhilaration take over, and you’re ready to do it all over again. That’s exactly what a session can feel like—the thrill and excitement will come naturally. You’re here because you want to step out of the mundane and into something extraordinary. Whether it’s pushing your mind, your body, or both, you’ll always be safe, and the experience will leave you wanting more.
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9 - Do you find that exploring fetishes helps people grow in other areas of their lives?
10 - How do you see fetish and BDSM evolving in the future?
Exploring your fetishes is about unlocking a part of yourself that’s often kept hidden, bringing it into the light, and owning it. That sense of self-acceptance can ripple out into other areas of your life, making you feel more confident, expressive, and secure in your own voice. It’s about releasing your truth into the world and knowing it’s okay to be exactly who you are. If more people embraced and expressed their truth, we’d have a kaleidoscope of personalities creating a richer, more vibrant world.
I see fetish and BDSM becoming more normalized and understood, not just as kinks but as a way of connecting deeply with ourselves and others. As society grows more open-minded, I think it will be easier for people to embrace their desires without judgment, creating a space where authenticity is celebrated. I’d also love to see more education around it—showing how it can be empowering, healing, and even transformative when done with care and intention. It’s not just about indulgence; it’s about freedom and self-expression.
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