INTERVIEW WITH SHANNON HUXLEY
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TO CELEBRATE THE LAUNCH OF FTSHSTUDIOS.COM WE INTERVIEW ADULT FETISH PERFORMER SHANNON HUXLEY AND GET THE LOW-DOWN ON HER FASCINATING INSIGHTS INTO THE WORLD OF BDSM, FETISH AND SEX
1 - How did you discover your kinks?
It does make it sound like it just hit me one day, doesn’t it? But really, discovering my kinks has been a journey spanning over 15 years, starting in my teenage years. One defining moment was working in finance, where I realized how much high heels empowered me. Slipping on my shiny shoes and strutting around the office made me feel so powerful!
That feeling of empowerment is what inspired me to start sharing office photos on Instagram. Over time, I’ve embraced not only the things that empower me—like heels and shiny outfits—but also the vulnerability of submission. Both sides have allowed me to eroticize power in unique ways, and I’ve picked up plenty of exciting kinks along the way!
2 - Are you Domme, Sub or Switch?
Oh, I’m definitely a switch—I love both extremes. I’m a sucker for contrasts, and there’s nothing like having a man under my shoe, calling me his goddess while I spit in his face and laugh. On the flip side, there’s also nothing like being chained up and fucked senseless into a blissful stupor. The only difference? I’ll only ever submit to Oscar—he’s my alpha, and that’s just how it is.
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3 - Have you ever deliberately used the power of fetish in a vanilla situation?
Oh, absolutely! The power of fetish can be incredible, even in vanilla situations. Wearing a pair of commanding boots or a big leather coat instantly changes how people perceive and treat you. I find the response is usually very positive—I often get lovely compliments, and people seem to appreciate the confidence and authenticity it takes to wear something a little bold or different. It definitely attracts positive attention, and I’ll admit, I love that!
4 - How often do you surprise yourself with what you’re prepared to do in the name of your fetishes?
I surprise myself all the time! I’m the kind of person who loves to say yes to new experiences—not recklessly, but with the confidence that I can approach them safely and thoughtfully. That said, I do get a little nervous right before something big happens! For example, I once went on the tube and wandered around London fully clad in a latex catsuit.
I wanted to do it to feel powerful and sexy in a public setting, like saying, "This is me!" But wow, getting changed into it in the Waterloo station toilets was a nerve-wracking moment! Each time I step out of my comfort zone, I feel even more like my authentic self, and that’s such an incredible feeling.
5 - What’s been your most memorable experience exploring a fetish?
I’ve had so many memorable moments, but one that really stands out is when Oscar wrapped a collar and lead around my neck while we were fucking. The way his strong, muscly arm held the chain tightly in his fist while he moved—it was so raw and intense. That moment made me realize how much I love chains, which wasn’t something I’d thought about before.
Now I own loads, and I adore the weight of them on my body—they feel so heavy, grounding, and medieval. It’s incredible to discover something new about yourself in such a visceral way.
6 - How do you approach connecting with someone new during a session?
I always start by chatting with someone over email or text to get a sense of what they’re looking for. Depending on the situation, we might meet for a coffee or drink before the session begins. This gives us a chance to chit-chat, ease any nerves, and build a sense of trust. It’s important to me that they see I’m an approachable, friendly person—even if I’m about to become a harsh and merciless dominatrix!
And yes, I can be cruel in the best way, but I also want every individual to know that their safety, comfort, and well-being are my top priorities. If they ever need to stop, they’re in the hands of someone who genuinely cares.
7 - What advice would you give someone curious about exploring their fetishes for the first time?
Take it slow and introduce your fetish into your life at a pace that feels right for you. It might feel strange or outside your comfort zone at first, but with each step you take, you’ll uncover more of your authentic self.
If you’re finding it hard to take the first step, seek out like-minded people—like me, of course—who can help you explore in a safe, supportive environment. Sometimes having someone take the lead can make all the difference. Most importantly, talk about it, learn about it, and dive into it without shame or guilt. Fetishes are a beautiful part of who you are—embrace them.
8 - What advice would you give to someone nervous about booking their first session?
It’s completely normal to feel nervous! In fact, nerves and excitement are two sides of the same coin—your body is just gearing up for something new and exhilarating. The fact that you’re interested and curious means you’re already halfway there.
I’ll make sure you’re in safe hands, and trust me, deep down, I’m a big goof! You kind of have to be to really enjoy kink, don’t you? So, let those nerves settle, because I’ll take the lead and make sure you feel at ease. All you have to do is show up and let the experience unfold.
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9 - Do you find that exploring fetishes helps people grow in other areas of their lives?
Oh, absolutely! Fetish is such a deeply personal part of who we are, but for so many, it’s suppressed and hidden under layers of shame or fear. If you’re unable to explore something so integral to yourself, how confident can you really be in other areas of your life?
I’ve seen incredible transformations in people who’ve embraced their fetishes—they become more confident, less stressed, and more at ease in their own skin. It’s a beautiful thing to watch someone grow into a more wholesome and authentic version of themselves.
10 - How do you see fetish and BDSM evolving in the future?
I hope to see fetish and BDSM continue to evolve as something widely accepted, not just as a form of enjoyment but also as a therapeutic and empowering experience. It should be seen as a celebration of life and authenticity, something accessible to anyone curious about exploring themselves.
I’d love to see the conversation shift to align it more with personal growth and self-discovery rather than outdated ideas of it being seedy or taboo.
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